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20070514 : 8:45 PM
well, it looks like a full-fledged up close and not so personal confrontation. >:D to protect confidentiality, the person will be referred to as the Suckerfish. then again, we all know who it is, don't we? i think i shall post it all down here, in my view, so as to avoid omission, a term learnt from CommSkills today meaning to accidentally/purposely leave out information, leading to a communication barrier. yay. let's fast-forward a bit, to the part where i met up with 1+3. they were in a hurry to leave, apparently because they wanted to avoid the Suckerfish at the door, an idea i was also keen on. isn't it wonderful how the buildings have multiple exits? they make for such quick escapes. on the way to the MRT, we were laughing and joking and occasionally glancing nevously back, looking for a hint of that figure we did not want to see. thankfully, there was no sign of him. it is absolutely creepy how he can pop out of nowhere at your back, and almost always when he happens to be the topic of discussion. *shudder* unfortunately, he moved a step ahead and ambushed us in front. it was just then that Diane and i were agreeing that we would probably scream and run if we saw him, and we really DID. Weiliang spied him first stepping round the corner, glaring at us, and made a full 180dg turn. Diane shrieked and followed suit. i stopped and stared at them, then slid my gaze to the front and i think i also made a noise similar to a hysterical scream. This was followed by a whole lot of hushed panicking as the Suckerfish approached. there is an idiom perfect for his look, which is "if looks could kill, we'd all be dead." or something like that. he marched right up to Esmond, poor guy, and: ".. very funny, is it? .." *hussy look* our eyes snapped right back to him. the temperature raised a couple of notches. followed by: "am i that irritating?" *insert frantic flapping of arms* 3 second silence, and then: "Yes." that was Weiliang! ZOKM. the Suckerfish was a lil stunned by this forthright answer i guess, so he went on. "What part of me is wrong[not too sure what he said]?!" "Everything." Xiao S deadpanned and i promptly burst out laughing. and then he demanded -can you believe the nerve, actually demanded!- an explanation for our answers ["like what? like what?" *insert whiny tone*] and then i had to say something. so i tried to phrase it quite nicely, but i think i sounded like some dumb counsellor trying to put the message across to someone who already has a communication barrier around himself: The Refusal to Listen. [i'm getting good at applying this CommSkills stuff! XD] so i told him straight off that we simply did not like him, because he was coming too close for comfort to the girls [which is really putting it lightly, believe me] and basically just annoying the shit out of everyone. he actually dared to invite me to continue with my list of Reasons Why We Don't Like Suckerfish with that face that makes me so wanna slap him. what the hell is this, a petition? i don't have to goddamn explain myself to him! and then, stuff i said got a bit hazy, but we switched to that little story of his having a girl and going to bookshops and shit. i was like, "honestly, don't you think you're being self-contradictory? you told Diane and the others that you had been alone for 4 years and you tried to use that to get Weiliang to wait outside with you [nuts you are; who on earth would wait outside when there's air conditioning inside], then what the hell is your girlfriend?" or something along those lines. he blustered and fumbled and said "oh, it was for two, no three years." therefore, one year being alone. what's the big deal? and honestly, his story is so full of loopholes that a blindfolded toddler could see right through it. if you want to lie, do it CONVINCINGLY. *rolls eyes* so in the end, he got into a prissy and huffed off [apparently with teary eyes, or so Xiao S said] but not before Diane managed to get a piece of him. she was practically screaming at him, "WHAT THE HELL YOU GO AND SCOLD ESMOND FOR?! ALSO NOT HIS FAULT CAN! IS WE ALL ASK HIM NOT TO ANSWER YOUR CALLS AND LEAVE WITH US WAN! HE WANTED TO GO BACK TO LOOK FOR YOU CAN! .." or something along those lines. you get the picture. [DIANE YOU ROCK SOCKS. :D] so.. yeah. that's pretty much about it. oh his nick right now reads ".. Stabbed twice. Not perfect. Tell me how. Please be blunt, tell me I am wrong, tell me how I should be. I'm sorry for trying too hard." *snorts* YEAH WHATEVER. To whom it may concern aka Suckerfish: I'm not sure if you'll see this or not, and i certainly don't give a damn. what i give a damn about is what you're going to do from tomorrow. will you try to change? i seriously wonder. honestly, during the first week of school, i thought you weren't so bad, seeing as we kinda had a common interest. but my impression of you slowly faded, to be replaced by despise and a tinge of pity. were you that blind and oblivious to the not-so-subtle hints everyone was dropping? or were you actually that thickskinned and continued to hang around? recently, your hovering around has degenerated into more than just annoyance. and recently, i've been hearing more and more about how your behavior seems to invade the girls' comfort zones. of the two, i care more about the latter. and i'm seriously dang furious that you got too close today and i didn't notice. what is that habit of yours creeping up on people? it freaks people out, in case you didn't realize. why can't you just approach people normally and be upfront about it? don't give me pathetic excuses like, you came from an all-boys school and you don't really know how to interact with girls, quite frankly that's bull and once again you're contradicting your story of having a girlfriend. please stop moving in too close, i can't breathe normally. i find your behavior really abnormal to me, because most guys don't go too close to girls, regardless of how deep their friendship is, unless it's something more. this is common sense and propiety, in case you didn't know, which is seriously questionable. your lack of common courtesy is apparent, especially when you butt into conversations or add random comments which are more often than not, nonsensical. don't try to rush into things like you are now, it's just ringing alarm bells for us to set up defences. please make for more allowance of space and time to get used to this. and while you're at it, you might wanna think about your personality and why you've "been alone for the past 4 years." i'm not being hurtful or cruel on purpose, this is my 0.02 worth of cutthroat opinions. take it with a handful of salt or sugar if you will. |
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